Here's why you should read my blog before paying money to join most online dating sites. I'd like to think I can give you legitimately useful tidbits of wisdom. Or at least some eye candy.
A few sites dole out gems like the following things that girls like or think about when men approach them online or during a date. I have added my own assessments.
1. Talks about things she likes or dislikes, making comments and showing interest. Making comments. Brash!
2. Displays concern for her, her feelings and well-being. Or, be a douche. Whichever.
3. Shares jokes or amusing anecdotes with her. Yeah, be like her grandfather. That's money
4. Sends her special/cute email messages. Are you a twelve year old girl? Then fine.
5. Makes an effort to contact her in some form most every day. Thinking about her counts.
6. Sends instant messages when she and you are online at the same time. I know I love getting IM'd every time I am online!
7. Discusses seriously the traits she desires in a partner. "Hi, let me judge you."
8. Shows her your daring or mischievous side. Do it now, because this will be of far less interest to her once she has you hooked.
10. Emails her greeting cards, gifts, pictures songs or fun attachment. See comment 4.
Sigh. I am off to hire a band of monkeys to set up a web site that gives better dating advice than the twits at Match, pletnyoffish, E-harmonot, etc.. Actually, I am deciding what simple yet common profile mistake I will address tomorrow. I AM supposed to be giving advice, I know. Until then, here you go.
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